Friday, December 30, 2011

The 2011 Mom

Posted by The Lovebugs at 5:46 AM 0 comments
The ABC'S
(Alicia, Benjamin, Chris)
of 2011

A - All Foods - After he turned one year old in July, my Little Lovebug started appreciating more adult and solid foods.  We've given him a variety of textures and flavors and the only things he really doesn't seem to like are the jarred foods specifically catered to toddlers!!! He definitely goes through phases and is a bit more of a "grazer" than not...but if you ask me - I think he's a great eater!!  Healthy too!  (until of course he grabs a piece cookie or candy left out unknown to me!!!)


B - Bermuda Cruise - August 29 - September 4 - Though we were delayed by a day due to the Hurricane Irene we still had an amazing time sailing to Bermuda.  The weather wasn't as hot as we would have liked, but my entire family was there.  We went snorkeling, my Little Lovebug got to play at the beach for the first time (and boy did he enjoy the taste of sand!), we saw shows, ate more than I can even imagine and just simply had a wonderfully relaxing, much-needed vacation!







C - Clown - October 22 & 31 - My little boy's second Halloween and because of the Circus themed Murder Mystery Party I threw, my Little Lovebug went dressed as a clown!  Night of Mystery has great Murder Mystery Games.  Picture People did an amazing job as always! 







D - Disney World - February 22-24 - Can't believe it's been almost a whole year since we vacationed in Marco Island with Big Daddy Lovebug's aunt and uncle.  Our first trip to Disney World came complete with a visit to all four parks, dinner at our favorite restaurant 'Ohana (means "Family), and met many characters, especially Mickey, Minnie and Pluto!!!










E - Easter - April 24 - My Little Lovebug's first Easter fell on my Birthday.  We hosted it at our house and the one thing I wished for came true!!! My Little Lovebug (who is totally NOT a snuggler - fell asleep in my arms that very afternoon!!!) 



F - Fish - October - Grandmommy received a 50 gallon tank from my brother who works in Petland.  She told me on of the fish was extremely violent, then proceeded to ask me if I wanted it.  Of course, my initial reaction was - NO!  But, as I saw the fish I actually fell in love with the "killer fish" and aptly named it Dexter.  Big Daddy Lovebug had wanted an aquarium for some time now so we picked up a 10 gallon one for his birthday and several other fish as well.  Dexter attacked.  So bad we lost a few fish and put Dexter into a smaller bowl.  Eventually after a few days we introduced him back to the 10 gallon tank (this time with 4 other fish) and he was attacked immediately.  He lived to tell the tale and ever since that incident, the fist have been living in perfect harmony!!! 
G - Gabbing - Not quite a talker...yet...my Little Lovebug has been conjuring up quite a few "words."  Amongst them are mama, dada, dog, sheep, hi, People warn me that the time of the non-stop talking will hit and when it does it will hit hard!!! I say - Bring it on!!! 
H - Harvest Time - November 24 - Hard to believe that only 2 Thanksgiving ago I was curled up on the couch in pain due to a new pregnancy, urinary track infection and horrible morning sickness.  The tension didn't subside completely this year (a few little tug-of-war) moments between both families, but when all is said and done - as long as there was turkey and sides, good times were had by all!
I - I Love the CUMC Playgroup - Grandmommy started the CUMC Playgroup back in 1979.  I went there.  My siblings went there.  Now my son goes there!  Free Play, Stories, Songs, Games, Snacks, Arts and Crafts...it is a service to the community provided by the Community United Methodist Church in Middle Village. Visit CUMC Playgroup for more information!!!

J - Joy to the World!!! - December 25 - Benny had a phenomenal time opening his presents from Santa this year.  Of course, he didn't quite get why all these amazing gifts were for him, but he was thrilled to take part in the ripping of the wrapping paper!  He also got so many things it's like we live in a toy store!!



K - Kisses - My Little Lovebug LOVES throwing kisses!!! He throws them at everyone!!!  He gives real kisses too.  Very open-mouthed, complete with a "mmmmwahhhhh" sound. 



L - Lewin's Farm - September - The apple and pumpkin picking season lacked a little due to Hurricane Irene, but it didn't stop the Lovebug's from taking part in their annual ritual of searching high and low for apples...any apples!!!...to make a few pies, applesauce and apple butter with



M - Muppets - one of the only movies worth spending our hard earned money on this year, and although my Little Lovebug didn't attend it with us, I'm sure it will make a nice addition to our DVD collection when it's released.  I'm thrilled they came roaring back so hopefully my Little Lovebug will enjoy them in the years to come!

N - New Year - Happy New Year 2011 was roughly 365 days ago!!!  Now we're welcoming in this year!!!  The Lovebugs will be spending this year in the Poconos!!!  It's the first "Holiday" (if you consider the new year to be one) we will be spending away, someplace NOT in NY!!!! 

Happy New Year 2011

O - One Year Old - On July 25 my Little Lovebug turned ONE!!!  I can't believe it!  We has a HUGE birthday bash for him (with a Toy Story theme) which was SUPPOSED to be in my parents backyard...however...due to the extreme heat advisory late July we moved the party back into my church's basement (luckily we had booked it just in case of "bad weather.")  I made the cake, Woody and Buzz came of visit and it really worked out well!!! Of course it would have worked out better if we didn't lug over 50 chairs the night before from the church to our house and then back again the next day...



P - Philadelphia - May 28 - 30 - When the Super 8 motel we usually stay in the Poconos was booked for Memorial Day in May I was beyond devastated.  However, it gave us the opportunity to venture outside o our comfort zone a little and head out of Philadelphia instead.  Armed with a CitiPass we hit many of the city highlights including Love Park, The Benjamin Franklin Institute, The Museum of Science, Trolley Tours, Betsy Ross' House, the Liberty Bell, the US Mint, Reading Terminal Market, Elephant and Castle, the Aquarium, Zoo and so much more!!!  And all in 2 and a half days!  A little mini-cation in May -  Just what us Lovebugs needed!





Q - Questions anyone???  - Our son's curiosity peaked this year (complete with the pointing finger) as he asks "wasss 'at?"  {Translation - "What's that?"} about everything!  And I do mean everything!!! And man, he gets mad when you don't answer him!!! Just kidding!!!

"The Face" - The one and only time he ever made it!

R - Road Trips!  Sesame Place, Poconos, Philadelphia, Disney World (from Marco Island)...“The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page.” – St. Augustine.  The quote rings true.  I only hope life offers us many more traveling and wandering experiences like we had this year!

Sesame Place - October 1, 2011


S - St. Patrick's Day - Another first for my Little Lovebug...dressed him all in green (but no corned beef, cabbage or Irish Soda Bread...yet!!! Maybe next year!)



T - Tornados and other bad weather - The unusual weather this year in New York made headlines...blizzards, earthquakes, tornadoes and hurricanes.  Though the tornado and blizzard technically happened in 2010  it still feels incredibly recent.  We are extremely blessed that all events were not as severe as they could have been and that our friends and family were left unscathed by them. 

Hurricane Irene - August 28, 2011
U - Up - That's exactly which way he's walking these days - upward!  Staring all the way back in March, he is a big fan of going up the stairs and climbing up on top of things to get what he wants.  More often that now I find him up on the couch.  While he's good with coming down on several things, not so much on others.  That's a skill still in progress!

Benny first stands - March 2011

V - Valentine's Day - February 14 - My little Valentine.  I love both my Little Lovebug so much!!!  Look at that face?!  Need I say more?!?!



W - Wedding Cupcakes - September 24 - In late September, my independent cake company,  Cakes By Lee, booked it's first wedding.  I made 150 cupcakes, 4 different kinds and delivered them to my friends wedding.  It was extremely exciting and I hope I have more business opportunities like that in the future


X - Xylophones and other instruments - Attempting to instill a love of music in my boy we have provided him with many opportunities to experiment with different musical instruments.  Whether playing the xylophone or tambourine in Playgroup or playing his own little piano at home, I feel the love of music in general is so important and I want that to be a part of him always. 


Y - YMCA -  In March we started taking our Little Lovebug to the Cross Island YMCA once a week for swimming lessons.  It's a basic class, focusing on the comfort of the child in the water.  Kicking their legs, reach and pulling with our arms, and the dreaded underwater dive...scary...for both the parent and the child.  My Little Lovebug HATES it!!!  He's not too fond with our instructor either, but almost a year later he has just recently started loosening up and though his eyes sometimes still shine with fear and terror...he's starting enjoying himself.  I also take him to the kiddie gym before swimming in hopes that will also relax him and focus on the fun that's waiting to be had!


Z - Zzzzzzz'sss - It might be a mom thing - just looking at your little one sleeping, innocence, purity, serenity...i just love watching him sleep and did so on many, many occasion this year.  His little mouth puckered open, little rump often in the air...I just can't get over how lucky and blessed I am!!!

Happy New Year!!!  Happy 2012!!! 
May the road before us be filled with even more wonders than the last... 

Thursday, December 29, 2011

The Holiday Mom

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Christmas has come and gone.  My Little Lovebug's second holiday season.  It seems unreal, like everyday is just a dream I'm waiting to wake up from - that is how wonderful my little guy is! Time goes fast (or so people say) but right now I'm enjoying every last moment with my little family!

Earlier this month we went to MA and cut down our tree from Wood's Tree Farm:



Though our annual trip to the Yankee Candle flagship store proved to be bountiful, we ventured to the new Kringle Candle, created by the son of the man who created Yankee Candle.  A little unusual for competition, that's true, but the scents are new and fresh and the draw is that all his candles are white.  The basement of the store was, what I would have considered "A Retro-Wonderland" filled with toys from yesteryear's...and in the back of the "toy shop" was Kris Kringle himself.  My Little Lovebug wasn't ready to sit on his lap, however, he did give Santa high-five and signed his name in his big book. 



Grandmommy's Gingerbread Party was a hit, with a special visit from Santa to suit!




Guess who Santa is?  It started when we took him to see Santa, but he wasn't as thrilled this year as he was in his "infant" state.  Thankfully we had a Santa costume lying around so Big Daddy Lovebug donned St. Nick's attire and - viola! - Naughty (non-Big Daddy Santa) vs. Nice!

We spent Christmas Eve with Big Daddy Lovebug's side of the family and it was wonderful and loud and the food with ohhhh so delicious!(Zorns).  Fitting 34 people into his mom's 2 bedroom co-op was nothing short of a Christmas miracle as well...
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That night we put out some cookies and a note for Santa:


We read the class "''Twas the Night Before Christmas," then all "Nice" little boys snuggled in their beds...


We woke up on Christmas morning to a tree packed with presents underneath!!!  Santa visited us!!!  Someone sure has been a good boy this year!!!  He even wrote a letter back to my Little Lovebug!




Santa brought my Little Lovebug Toy Story Mr. Potato Head Collection, LeapFrog Laptop (which hooks up to our computers!), Sesame Street collection of Christmas books, "Cars" keys and Rock and Roll Mickey.  Now, Rock and Roll Mickey was named one of the hottest toys in 2011.  My son?  TERRIFIED of it!!!!!  It would be so sad if he wasn't completely adorable!!!  He wants nothing to do with Mickey as he tried to teach my Little Lovebug some awesome Rock Star moves!!!  Ohh well - it's on our bedroom dresser now!!!
We spent Christmas day with my side of the family.  Just as warm and loud and my aunt and uncle made a delicious ham with enough sides to make anyone's mouth water! 

My Little Lovebug received so many wonderful gifts, too many to name, but here are some of my ultimate favorites this year!!!





Our Christmas Card (Picture People does absolutely amazing work every time!!!)


A year in review coming soon!!! Until then....Merry Christmas to all and to all a Good Night!!!

Sunday, August 28, 2011

The Weather Mom

Posted by The Lovebugs at 5:23 AM 0 comments
This seems unbelievable to me!  As of last year I had been alive 28 years and thankfully NEVER saw a tornado, earthquake or hurricane.  We've had a few blizzards, but COME ON!  We live in New York!  One of the draws about living in NY, at least for me, is the change in seasons.  I love the leaves in the fall, the idea of making a snowman in the winter, the cherry blossoms in the spring, and having the summer off when it's hot!  I love having seasonal bags of clothes under my bed that beg to be sorted out when the weather begins to change.

Of course, NY has it's scary problems as well...we've had several terrorist attacks, we have our nasty (and sometimes dangerous) people and some of the worst drivers on the planet.

New Yorkers always are on the edge as far as safety is concerned.  It was the main reason I was hesitant at all about having a child.  There were several times my heart would race and I would think - How can I bring up a child in such a nasty, scary, unknown world.  However, natural disasters in NY were very rare, and barely even entered my mind as something that would really cause me concern, especially as a new mom. 

And then, my Little Lovebug was born.

My Little Lovebug has been alive 13 months.  He has already seen a tornado/microburst (September 16, 2010), one of the worst blizzards ever (December 26, 2010), an actual earthquake (August 23, 2011) and today, August 28, 2011 - he will witness his first Hurricane.

The thing that stinks the most was, we were heading on a cruise today, 8 nights from New York to Bermuda.  The trip was postponed until tomorrow morning.  So, instead of packing our last minute items and getting ready to meet the cab in front of my friends house, instead of getting ready for delicious food and entertaining shows, we are boarded up in our house, anxiously awaiting the arrival (and departure!) or Hurricane Irene.  This last paragraph is not meant to sound selfish.  Obviously, the concern of my family's safety is #1.  There will be a lot of devastation after Hurricane Irene passes through and my heart goes out of everyone affected.  

The whole point of this is - there is always the unknown, there is always the unexpected.  There are always things we would rather be doing.  There is always a bad time.  The best thing we can do is be prepared.  Be prepared and pray.  Keep your loved ones close and as safe as you can. 

Godspeed and Good Luck. 






Sunday, July 24, 2011

The Nostalgic Mom

Posted by The Lovebugs at 8:26 PM 0 comments
One year ago this morning, I began having contractions.  They would last the next 10 hours.

One year ago this morning, we went to the hospital, where the doctor said I probably wasn't ready to give birth, but I should check back in after 8 pm.  

One year ago today I baked cupcakes and decorated them in the shape of an alligator.

One year ago today I spent the day at a friend's outdoor BBQ, where it reached a high of 93 degrees.

One year ago at 8 pm, the nurse rolled her eyes, but checked me out anyway.  

One year ago tonight I was admitted to the NY Hospital in Queens after being dilated 4 cm.

One year ago tonight I was given an epidural with the largest syringe needle I have ever laid eyes on.

One year ago tonight I lost all feeling from the waist down.

One year ago tonight I was introduced to the catheter.  I never wanted to use the bathroom again.  

One year ago tonight my husband laid down on the bed beside me, but didn't sleep a wink.

One year ago tonight I had the best night sleep ever.

One year ago in the middle of the night, on the hospital television I could swear there was a baby staring at me through the monitor and it creeped me out. 

One year ago tomorrow, I began pushing at 12:30 pm.  I thought, "Hey, this isn't too bad."  Then the nurse told me I'd be doing this for the next 3 hours.

One year ago tomorrow, I pushed...for 3 hours.

One year ago tomorrow, at 3:30 pm they said the head was stuck and I needed an emergency C-Section.

One year ago tomorrow, at 4 pm they sliced me open.  The nurses and doctors crowded around me and talked about bad food they had eaten and had gotten sick from.  Their conversation made me sick.  I tried to meditate but ended up replaying many episodes, in sequence, from Primeval.  It helped slightly.

One year ago tomorrow, at 4:30 pm I heard them say "It's a boy."

One year ago tomorrow, I laid eyes on the most beautiful baby boy in the world.

One year ago tomorrow, I gave birth to Benjamin.  

One year ago tomorrow, I fell in love.

Benny is Born ~ July 25, 2010
Benny's First Birthday Party ~ July 23, 2011
 

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